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The Blog of Ryan S. Besinque, Divorce Attorney.  Learn about the NYC divorce process and get answers to commonly asked questions about family law. 

Is New York a Community Property State?

New York is an equitable distribution state, not a community property state. This means marital property is divided fairly between spouses, though not necessarily equally. Under New York Domestic Relations Law § 236, courts consider multiple factors to determine what constitutes a fair division rather than automatically splitting everything 50/50.

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How Can You Win an Order of Protection in New York?

Winning an Order of Protection in New York requires filing in the appropriate court, proving a qualifying relationship with the person you need protection from, and presenting sufficient evidence at a hearing. A granted order can restrict all contact, enforce distance from your home and workplace, and prevent the person

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How Much Does Divorce Mediation Cost in New York?

Divorce mediation costs vary based on the mediator’s rate, the number of sessions, whether each spouse consults an attorney, and the complexity of the issues. Manhattan divorce mediation may cost more compared to other parts of New York because professional rates vary by market. But for couples who can reach

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What Is Separation Mediation in New York?

Separation mediation is a voluntary, out-of-court process where a neutral mediator helps a separating couple negotiate the terms of a legally binding separation agreement. In New York, this process allows spouses to resolve issues such as property division, spousal maintenance, child custody, child support, and debt allocation without going to

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What Is the 2-2-5-5 Custody Schedule?

A 2-2-5-5 custody schedule is a shared parenting rotation that splits parenting time 50/50 over a two-week cycle. The rotation breaks down into two-day and five-day blocks: one parent has the children for two days, then the other parent has them for two days, then the first parent has them

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What Does Joint Custody Mean, and Is It Right for You?

In New York, joint custody may refer to joint legal custody, joint physical custody, or both when parents are separated, divorcing, or involved in a custody case. Under joint legal custody, both parents make major decisions about a child’s education, healthcare, and religion together. Under joint physical custody, the child

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Successful Joint Custody: Putting the CO in CO-Parenting

Successful joint custody in New York depends on four core concepts: communication, cooperation, collaboration, and compromise. When parents master these principles, they create a stable and collaborative relationship that prioritizes their children’s well-being above personal differences. Joint legal custody requires both parents to share decision-making authority, and New York courts

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Is New York a Community Property State?

New York is an equitable distribution state, not a community property state. This means marital property is divided fairly between spouses, though not necessarily equally. Under New York Domestic Relations Law § 236, courts consider multiple factors to determine what constitutes a fair division rather than automatically splitting everything 50/50.

Continue Reading »

How Can You Win an Order of Protection in New York?

Winning an Order of Protection in New York requires filing in the appropriate court, proving a qualifying relationship with the person you need protection from, and presenting sufficient evidence at a hearing. A granted order can restrict all contact, enforce distance from your home and workplace, and prevent the person

Continue Reading »

How Much Does Divorce Mediation Cost in New York?

Divorce mediation costs vary based on the mediator’s rate, the number of sessions, whether each spouse consults an attorney, and the complexity of the issues. Manhattan divorce mediation may cost more compared to other parts of New York because professional rates vary by market. But for couples who can reach

Continue Reading »

What Is Separation Mediation in New York?

Separation mediation is a voluntary, out-of-court process where a neutral mediator helps a separating couple negotiate the terms of a legally binding separation agreement. In New York, this process allows spouses to resolve issues such as property division, spousal maintenance, child custody, child support, and debt allocation without going to

Continue Reading »

What Is the 2-2-5-5 Custody Schedule?

A 2-2-5-5 custody schedule is a shared parenting rotation that splits parenting time 50/50 over a two-week cycle. The rotation breaks down into two-day and five-day blocks: one parent has the children for two days, then the other parent has them for two days, then the first parent has them

Continue Reading »

What Does Joint Custody Mean, and Is It Right for You?

In New York, joint custody may refer to joint legal custody, joint physical custody, or both when parents are separated, divorcing, or involved in a custody case. Under joint legal custody, both parents make major decisions about a child’s education, healthcare, and religion together. Under joint physical custody, the child

Continue Reading »

Successful Joint Custody: Putting the CO in CO-Parenting

Successful joint custody in New York depends on four core concepts: communication, cooperation, collaboration, and compromise. When parents master these principles, they create a stable and collaborative relationship that prioritizes their children’s well-being above personal differences. Joint legal custody requires both parents to share decision-making authority, and New York courts

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