New York Domestic Relations Law § 236(B)(2)(b) creates automatic orders that take effect in a matrimonial action without a separate judge-issued order. The orders restrict certain financial and insurance-related actions during a pending divorce and require notice of certain proceedings that could affect the marital estate.
Manhattan divorce mediation attorney Ryan Besinque helps clients understand and comply with the automatic orders that apply during mediation. At The Law Office of Ryan Besinque, we guide couples throughout New York City through every legal requirement of the divorce process, including asset protection and automatic order compliance.
If you are going through a divorce and need to understand your obligations under the automatic orders, call The Law Office of Ryan Besinque at (929) 251-4477 to schedule a consultation. Our team is ready to help you protect your rights from day one.
What Are New York’s Automatic Orders Under DRL § 236(B)(2)?
Automatic orders are court-imposed restrictions created by DRL § 236(B)(2)(b). Their purpose is to preserve the status quo while the divorce is pending. 22 NYCRR § 202.16-a requires that a copy of the automatic orders be served on the defendant along with the divorce pleadings, ensuring both parties have actual notice of the restrictions.
The orders cover several categories of conduct, each designed to preserve the marital estate and existing insurance coverage while the divorce is pending:
| Order Type | What It Restricts |
|---|---|
| Property transfers | Selling, transferring, encumbering, concealing, assigning, removing, or disposing of property held individually or jointly, except as allowed by statute, written consent, or court order. |
| Health, dental, and other existing insurance | Removing the other party or children from existing medical, hospital, or dental coverage; failing to maintain existing medical, hospital, dental, life, automobile, homeowners, or renters insurance. |
| Life insurance benefits | Changing beneficiaries of existing life insurance policies. |
| Debts and secured credit | Incurring unreasonable debts, including further borrowing against a home equity line, further encumbering assets, or unreasonably using credit cards or cash advances. |
| Notice obligations | Failing to notify the other spouse within 10 days of a tax lien, foreclosure, bankruptcy, litigation, or lifting of a bankruptcy stay that could affect the marital estate. |
Key Takeaway: New York’s automatic orders under DRL § 236(B)(2)(b) bind the plaintiff upon filing and the defendant upon service. They restrict property transfers, retirement account transactions, unreasonable debts, insurance changes, life insurance beneficiary changes, and require notice of certain proceedings that could affect the marital estate.
When Do the Automatic Orders Take Effect in New York?
The filing spouse (plaintiff) is bound the moment the summons is filed with the court. The other spouse (defendant) is bound the moment they are served. There is no grace period; each party must comply immediately from that party’s trigger date. The summons served on the defendant must include a verbatim copy of the automatic orders under 22 NYCRR § 202.16-a, so the defendant has actual notice of the restrictions.
In Manhattan, divorce actions are filed in New York County Supreme Court. Once the summons is filed there, the clock starts for the plaintiff. Once the defendant receives the papers, whether by personal delivery, substituted service, or another authorized method, the orders bind them as well.
Key Takeaway: The automatic orders bind the plaintiff the moment they file for divorce and bind the defendant the moment they are served. There is no grace period; both parties are legally obligated to comply from these trigger dates forward.
What Conduct Do the Automatic Orders Specifically Prohibit?
The automatic orders restrict a wide range of financial and insurance-related actions during a pending divorce.
What Financial Actions Are Restricted?
Neither spouse may transfer, encumber, assign, remove, withdraw, or dispose of any property (whether held individually or jointly) except in the ordinary course of business, for usual household expenses, or for reasonable attorney fees related to the divorce. This covers real estate, bank accounts, retirement funds, investment accounts, vehicles, and any other assets, whether held jointly or individually.
Common violations include draining a joint bank account, selling real estate without the other spouse’s consent, making large gifts to family members, and moving funds into accounts the other spouse cannot access. These actions may violate the automatic orders and can create significant legal consequences.
What Insurance Restrictions Apply?
Neither spouse may cancel, modify, or allow any insurance policy to lapse if it covers the other spouse or the couple’s children. This applies to health insurance, life insurance, automobile insurance, and homeowner’s or renter’s insurance. For couples with employer-sponsored health plans, this means you cannot remove your spouse from coverage during the divorce.
What Beneficiary and Retirement Account Restrictions Apply?
The automatic orders prohibit either spouse from changing the beneficiaries of existing life insurance policies. They also restrict either spouse from transferring, withdrawing, or disposing of assets held in IRAs, 401(k)s, pension plans, Keogh accounts, profit-sharing plans, and other retirement accounts without written consent or a court order, except that a party already in pay status may continue receiving payments.
What Notice Must Be Given About Liens, Foreclosure, Bankruptcy, or Litigation?
If either spouse receives notice of a tax lien, foreclosure, bankruptcy, litigation, the filing of any of these matters, or the lifting of a bankruptcy stay that could adversely affect the marital estate, that spouse must give written notice to the other spouse within 10 days.

Do the Automatic Orders Apply During Divorce Mediation in NY?
Yes, if a divorce action has already been filed. The automatic orders apply during mediation once the matrimonial action has begun: the plaintiff is bound upon filing, and the defendant is bound upon service. If spouses mediate before filing any divorce papers, the statutory automatic orders have not yet taken effect, although the spouses may agree in writing to similar restrictions.
DRL § 236(B)(2) ties the automatic orders to the filing of a divorce action, not to courtroom appearances or trial proceedings. As soon as a summons is filed, the orders take effect regardless of the dispute resolution method the couple chooses. Mediation, collaborative law, and traditional litigation all operate under the same statutory restrictions.
Key Takeaway: Choosing mediation does not suspend or waive the automatic orders. Because DRL § 236(B)(2) ties the orders to the filing of a divorce action, both spouses in mediation remain fully bound by every restriction from the moment the summons is filed and served.
Manhattan Divorce Mediation Attorney – The Law Office of Ryan Besinque
Ryan Besinque, Esq.
Ryan Besinque is a Manhattan divorce mediation attorney and the founder of The Law Office of Ryan Besinque. He helps couples resolve divorce-related issues through mediation, guiding them through property division, child custody, child support, and spousal maintenance while working toward practical, durable agreements that avoid unnecessary conflict and litigation.
A graduate of the University of San Diego School of Law, where he received the CALI Award for Family Law, Ryan combines a background in business administration and psychology with extensive family law experience. He has represented hundreds of families throughout New York City and helps clients navigate the divorce process with clarity, efficiency, and respect.
Can the Automatic Orders Be Modified in New York?
New York law provides two ways to modify the automatic orders: by written agreement between both spouses or by court order. Both pathways are available to mediating couples as well as those engaged in traditional litigation.
If both spouses agree that a specific restricted action is necessary, they can sign a written stipulation authorizing it. For example, a mediating couple might agree to sell a jointly owned property before the divorce is finalized to avoid ongoing carrying costs. If the spouses cannot agree, either party can file a motion asking the court to modify or lift a specific order. Common reasons include refinancing a mortgage, liquidating an investment to cover necessary expenses, or selling a business asset.
During mediation, the ability to modify automatic orders by written agreement is especially useful because it gives couples flexibility to make financial decisions together while maintaining the legal protections the orders provide. A carefully drafted stipulation can allow necessary transactions to proceed without exposing either spouse to contempt risk.
Key Takeaway: The automatic orders are not absolute. In New York, they can be modified through a written agreement between the parties that is duly executed and acknowledged or by filing a motion and obtaining a court order. During mediation, parties can reach written agreements that lawfully permit otherwise restricted transactions.
What Happens If a Spouse Violates the Automatic Orders?
Failure to obey the automatic orders may be deemed contempt of court. During the pendency of the divorce action, a court may treat a proven violation as civil contempt under Judiciary Law § 753. A court may impose the following consequences:
- Fines and financial sanctions against the violating spouse
- An award of attorney fees to the other spouse for bringing the violation to the court’s attention
- An adverse inference during equitable distribution, meaning the court may assume the violating spouse acted to hide or waste marital assets
- Reversal of unauthorized transactions, such as restoring funds to a joint account or voiding an improper asset transfer
- In serious cases, incarceration for willful contempt
Violations discovered during mediation can also derail the entire process. If one spouse learns the other has been transferring assets or changing insurance in violation of the orders, it destroys the trust needed for productive negotiations and may cause the innocent spouse to abandon mediation for litigation. Even unintentional violations carry legal risk, which is why understanding the timing and scope of the orders is critical from the beginning of any divorce.
Key Takeaway: Violating the automatic orders is contempt of court. A judge can impose fines, award attorney fees to the other spouse, and consider the violation when dividing marital assets. Even in mediation, violations do not go unaddressed; they can undermine the entire process and expose the violating spouse to serious legal consequences.
How Do the Automatic Orders Affect Asset Division in NY Mediation?
The automatic orders create temporary financial restrictions that help preserve the marital estate while a couple negotiates. Without them, one spouse could quietly move money, sell property, or change beneficiary designations while the other negotiates in good faith.
For couples in mediation, this means neither spouse should unilaterally move, conceal, transfer, or encumber covered assets or take other actions restricted by the automatic orders. Mediators often use automatic orders as a framework for structuring discussions because neither spouse can unilaterally make major financial decisions. Every significant transaction must be discussed and agreed upon, which aligns with the collaborative spirit of mediation.
Key Takeaway: During divorce mediation, the automatic orders effectively freeze the marital estate, ensuring neither spouse can gain an unfair advantage by moving or hiding assets while negotiations are ongoing. This gives both parties a reliable financial snapshot to use as the foundation for a fair settlement agreement.
What Exceptions Apply to Property Transfers and Debts Under New York’s Automatic Orders?
DRL § 236(B)(2) carves out limited exceptions that allow both spouses to handle necessary financial matters while the orders are in effect. These exceptions are intentionally narrow and do not permit broad financial activity outside their defined scope:
- Ordinary course of business transactions: If you own a business, you can continue day-to-day operations, paying vendors, collecting receivables, and managing normal expenses, without violating the orders.
- Usual household expenses: Mortgage payments, rent, utilities, groceries, and routine childcare costs are permitted.
- Attorney fees: Both spouses may use funds for reasonable attorney’s fees in connection with the divorce action.
Any action outside the statutory exceptions should be authorized by the other party’s written consent where allowed, by a written agreement duly executed and acknowledged, or by court order. The line between “ordinary” and “extraordinary” expenses is not always clear. A large home repair might qualify as a usual expense, while renovating a vacation property probably would not. When in doubt, get written consent from your spouse before acting.
Key Takeaway: DRL § 236(B)(2) carves out limited exceptions including routine business transactions, ordinary household expenses, and reasonable attorney fee payments. Any transaction outside normal living or business expenses should be documented carefully or confirmed by written agreement to avoid a contempt claim.
Get Help from a Manhattan Divorce Mediation Attorney
Complying with the automatic orders while mediating your divorce requires careful attention to what you can and cannot do. An unintentional violation, even something as simple as closing an old insurance policy or changing a beneficiary, can result in contempt proceedings and undermine months of mediation progress.
Manhattan divorce mediation attorney Ryan Besinque helps clients comply with the automatic orders while working toward enforceable settlement agreements. At The Law Office of Ryan Besinque, we guide you through every stage of the process, from understanding your obligations under the automatic orders during mediation to filing your final agreement with the New York County Supreme Court.
Call The Law Office of Ryan Besinque at (929) 251-4477 to schedule a consultation. Our office at 115 West 25th Street in Manhattan serves clients throughout New York City, including Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, and Staten Island.
Frequently Asked Questions: NY Automatic Orders and Mediation
Do automatic orders apply if we haven’t gone to court yet?
Yes. The automatic orders take effect when the summons is filed, not when you appear in court. Even if your entire case is handled through mediation and you never set foot in a courtroom, the orders apply from the filing date forward.
Can we agree in mediation to lift one of the automatic orders?
Yes. Both spouses can sign a written stipulation that modifies or lifts a specific automatic order, for example, to permit the sale of a jointly owned property or allow one spouse to refinance a mortgage. This agreement should be drafted carefully by an attorney to ensure it is enforceable.
What if my spouse violated an automatic order before I knew about them?
If the violation happened after the party was legally bound by the automatic orders, you may ask the court for relief, including contempt while the divorce action is pending. If the conduct happened before service, or if the violation is discovered only after the divorce judgment is entered, contempt may not be available, although other remedies may exist depending on the facts.
Do the automatic orders protect my retirement accounts during mediation?
Yes. Retirement accounts, including 401(k) plans, pensions, and IRAs, are specifically covered by the retirement account restrictions in DRL § 236(B)(2)(b). Neither spouse may transfer, withdraw, dispose of retirement assets, or request retirement or annuity payments without written consent or a court order, except that a party already in pay status may continue receiving payments.
Can my spouse cancel my health insurance while we’re mediating?
No. The automatic orders explicitly prohibit either spouse from canceling, modifying, or allowing any insurance policy to lapse if it covers the other spouse or the children. If your spouse cancels your coverage in violation of the orders, you can file a motion for contempt and ask the court to restore the policy and impose sanctions.
How long do the automatic orders stay in effect?
The automatic orders remain in force until the judgment of divorce is entered or the action is dismissed, discontinued, or stayed, unless the orders are terminated, modified, or amended by court order or by a written agreement between the parties that is duly executed and acknowledged.
Do the automatic orders apply to property held only in my name?
Yes. The orders restrict conduct related to both jointly held and individually titled assets. Even property held solely in your name may be considered marital property subject to equitable distribution under DRL § 236(B)(5). Titled ownership alone does not permit you to transfer, encumber, or dispose of an asset while the automatic orders are in effect.


